Party of One: Have you ever gone to a bar alone?

"Waiting for the Right One" by Elena Fidanovska

I think one of the biggest things travel has taught me is how to be comfortable with being alone.  I used to feel extremely self-conscious going to a restaurant or movie theater solo and would have never dreamed of going to a bar or club by myself.  But travel forced me, mostly out of necessity, to overcome that fear.

I wrote a short guide to drinking alone for Divine Caroline, as part of my series on solo travel.

What do you think?  Do you have any tips to add? Would you go (or have you ever gone) to a bar by yourself?  What was it like?

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Travelogged: This Week’s Top Picks and Posts for Travel Addicts

Photo by Trey Ratcliff

Cabin Porn!  Someone on Twitter first posted this (I forget who, sorry!) and I love this website.  I hope to one day own my own cabin in the woods somewhere.

Six Things I’ve Learned about Traveling after 1,000 posts for Gadling - Gadling.com. I love Gadling. Have I ever mentioned that?  Here’s an excerpt from the post:

“Travel writing is important
Despite the many frustrations of travel writing and the (ahem) low pay, I think it’s more important than my history and fiction writing. This is such a divided world, filled with hatred, ignorance and fear. Chipping away at that negativity by showing people all the wonderful things other cultures have to offer is a noble profession.”

If cities had faces, we’d make out with these places. – The Lonely Planet blog.  Sofia, Bulgaria made the list.  I’ve never been there but now I’m thinking it’d be worth checking out.  I love his description of Portland.

“Portland, Oregon – It’s a rare thing to find someone who’s smart, charming, outdoorsy and attractive without being high maintenance. However, she’s undeniably weird, with some new age leanings that stray dangerously close to hippiedom. Expect your Christmas present to involve crystals.”

Matador posted this on Facebook: Getting Drunk May Unleash Creativity.  Personally, I think the study is completely bogus.

From the “no, duh” files: Flight Attendants Top Poll of Sexiest Professions. Figures.

And on a related note…Vintage flight attendant uniforms via CNN

Me, Jumping on The Great Wall of China

This is my plan for the weekend: How to have a fabulous luxurious retreat and produce your best work ever – without leaving your house.

Would you pay $790 a month for an all-you-can-fly airline? - Um, no.  But I think an all-you-can-fly is an awesome idea.

Cute vintage mag-inspired passport covers.  I want to buy one! Thanks to twitter pal Amory for the link.

I don’t like the car much but I LOVE this song and love road trip sing-a-longs.

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Bizarre Beijing: Three Surprising Things I Learned During My Weekend in China

Me, My Cousin Anderson and his wife Liz, on the Great Wall

I spent an interesting and busy few days in Beijing.  When I returned to work on Tuesday, my students asked me what I found most surprising about China and after considering their question for a moment, I came up with this list:

Three Surprising Factoids about China:

 

1.  There’s no Facebook or Twitter

Beijing had a lot of strange government signs

Maybe I shouldn’t have been surprised to learn this, because I knew China was big on internet censorship, but I guess it never occurred to me that a website as harmless as Facebook would ever make a country’s “naughty list”. After all, even my 14-year-old cousin and my brother’s dog have Facebook accounts. But when you think about the large role social media has played in facilitating revolutions in countries like Tunisia or Egypt, it makes sense that an authoritative government like the People’s Republic of China would want to take every measure to ensure they don’t have another uprising on their hands.

Chinese guards texting

2.  The Great Wall really is…great

The Great Wall

I’m not the biggest fan of tourist attractions. I lived in New York for seven years and never visited the Empire State Building or climbed up Lady Liberty.  I yawned through the Taj Mahal and wasn’t half as impressed as I thought I’d be touring Tikal.  I figured that if a 151-foot statue of a green woman couldn’t impress me, than surely an old long wall in the middle of nowhere wouldn’t stand a chance.

Peek-a-boo!

But I was wrong.  The wall was really cool.  Yes, it was old (14 centuries old, to be exact) and it was long (6,000 miles) and in the middle of nowhere (built atop a steep hillside), but I think that’s what made it impressive.

3.  The Chinese have an interesting take on toilet training

Toilet Sign

In China, burping is considered polite, spitting in public is quite common and seeing the occasional person relieving themselves in public isn’t completely unheard of.  I would know.  In the few short days I was there, I saw three pre-school-aged children pooping in the street (one, in front of a national monument).  Not only were these children’s parents completely okay with their children using the sidewalk or grass as a dump (ha!), they encouraged it.  For decades, it’s been the trend in China to fashion babies and toddlers in pants with slits in the back, called kaidangku or “open-crotch pants”.  The pants are designed with convenience in mind, as I suppose it’s easier for parents to wipe poop from the sidewalk than from children’s bottoms.

According to my Chinese students and to this article in China Daily, this p0tty-training method is going out of style and isn’t practiced much by people in Shanghai or Beijing.

While I believe human bodily functions are  natural and not something to be ashamed of (everyone poops!), I wasn’t comortable seeing it so prominantly on display like that. I have to admit, as tolerant as I like to think I am, I was a little weirded out by it all.

For example, a number of the public restrooms I used didn’t have locks on the stall doors and one didn’t have any doors at all.  None of the stalls in that public restroom did; just knee-high dividers. People could (and did!) walk by and see people relieving themselves.  No one seemed to mind much, but I found the experience awkward.

 Have you ever been to China? What, if anything, did you find surprising about it?

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Greetings from Beijing!

"Smoggy Sunset - Beijing, China" by Mike Behnken

If you’ve wondered where I’ve disappeared to in the last few days, I haven’t abandoned this blog, I’ve just been in Beijing!

My mom works for a major airline and has recently put me on her flight benefits, which means I can now fly for free whenever I want.  I flew to Beijing from San Francisco on business class and only paid 14 dollars!  Yes, 14 dollars.

Don’t hate me.  I know it’s not fair.  And I know I’m luckier than any one person should have the right to be (I feel guilty, honestly I do.)  What have I done to deserve this?  Seriously.

Anyway, it’d been a long time since I’d flown business class and let me tell you, I’m definitely hooked for life.  I don’t think I’ll ever be able to fly coach again (at least not on an 11-hour international flight).  The seat transformed into a bed, I had unlimited movies and TV and got to eat steak, ice cream and strawberries (three of my favorite foods).  They even served champagne.

It’s been a bit hectic since we arrived.  No one speaks English here (though if you ask people, they’ll tell you that they do.  I’m sorry, but a 4-word vocabulary does not count), but that makes things interesting, so I’m not complaining.  Besides, maybe it’ll force me to learn some Mandarin while I’m here.

More details soon to follow.  Here’s to a weekend of designer knock-offs, cockroaches-on-a-stick and 20 dollar full-body massages. I can’t wait!

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Things to Do in Las Vegas: Funky Belgian Desert Art

Me, Sitting on a "Sofa" in the Mojave Desert

“Well it’s set way back in the middle of a field, just a funky old shack and I gotta get back.”  - “Love Shack” by the B52′s

 About 120 miles Northwest of Las Vegas, along a piece of the Mojave desert outside of Rhyolite (a dusty turn-of-the-century ghost town) is an outdoor “open air” art museum. Though-the-middle-of-nowhere-Nevada may seem like an odd location for a sculpture exhibit, the strangest part is that all of the art is the work of a group of Belgians (Yes, Belgians.  As in from Belgium).   How multiple artists from a European country whose entire population barely exceeds that of New York City (Belgium has a population of close to 11 million) came to choose the outskirts of an abandoned gold-mining town in Nevada as the place to showcase their work, I have no idea.  I’ve learned though that the desert can be a magnet for the bizarre (castles or wild donkeys, anyone?) and it’s best to just accept the fact that a lot of what you encounter out there won’t make a lot of sense.  It’s part of the appeal, in my opinion.

Ghosts "The Last Supper"

Penguin and a man with an axe (?)

Giant Pink Lady

ghost and bicycle

Ghost and Bicycle Close-Up

Ghosts and Pink Lady

Sofa in the Sand

If you’d like to see the art for yourself, the museum is called the  ”Goldwell Open Air Museum” (http://goldwellmuseum.org/) and it’s located along the route to Death Valley National Park.  Check out the website for upcoming art workshops.

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